Ever since I was a little girl, I hated being left out of things. I just don’t like the feeling and since I don’t like it the life lesson.
“Do unto others as you wish done to you.” Stays with me every day and I try to do it. I like to include people as much as I can and never leave anyone it. It has me leaning toward saying yes, a lot more than no. But I am getting off-topic here.
When it comes to having a baby, we hear a lot about moms and things of the sort. It’s about breastfeeding, birth, and so much more that it’s a lot about mom. Now yes, she has a lot of work to do. She is the one having a lot of things changing and going on in her life. But let’s not forget dad either. You are becoming a father; you are the one having your entire life changed as well.
Tip 1: Show interest
Showing interest in baby names or listening to stories that she read online even. Seem intrigued in the situation. Not only is it getting you more involved, but you are showing her your support. Which is a big key in all of this new stuff ahead.
Tip 2: Feel the baby
You have no way of touching baby until s/he is here. But… you can ask permission from mom to touch the belly and see if you feel baby moving. Talk to baby. There are ways to connect more with baby and with mama.
Tip 3: Date your Significant Other
Well in 9 months (maybe less depending on where you are in your pregnancy) a lot of things are going to be changing. You will have less time for each other. This is the time to make each other feel more important.
Tip 4: Childbirth Education
I don’t care what everyone says but this is a big one. You can learn lots, but most classes are pretty fun. If you get one through a doula/childbirth educator, they try to make them as fun as possible for you. It can also be a part of your dates if you want to.
Tip 5: Do something to make this memorable for you.
Well, you are going to have a baby and that is pretty memorable in itself. Moms get baby showers. Make a night out with other dads. See if there is a dad-to-be support group in your area, and see if there is one online. Make this moment special for yourself as well.
